richer by far

in this community living

for the laughter at our table

for the barbs given and taken

            with wit and smiles

for the freedom to leave as needed

            for the undisturbed

            haven of our own space

for the quiet words of concern

            and comfort as we lean

            near to be heard by

            only ourselves

live generously

live generously

is a friend’s company’s motto

that suits her way of life

to fulfillment

it was a joy to hug her

on her birthday

and see again the sparkle

in her eyes as she reaches out

with love

laughter without humiliation

laughter with family and friends

telling embarrassing interludes

we wouldn’t want just everyone to hear

but can share with those who will see

the humor without thinking less of us

that somehow eases the pain

of knowing again we are not perfect                                           

not much gained

tom sawyer as conceived by twain

with assumptions and superstitions

of so long ago that still ring true

that we no longer say aloud our belief

in racial superiority does not alter

our conviction or our actions

sparkles of excitement

tiny sparkles of excitement

enter the room with the parents

of the groom

sparkles intensify as they are joined

by the young couple for lunch

with loving friends

hushed time, listening

hushed time, listening

anguished for the tale

of love stretched beyond

limits and parting of one

now again two